Everyday support
Supporting someone who is struggling
Listen, offer practical support, and know when to involve a professional or emergency service.
AI-assisted educational content · Updated 2026-10-06 · Not independently clinically reviewed
Begin with listening
Choose a safe moment and describe what you have noticed without assigning a diagnosis. You could say, 'You seem to be having a hard time. Would you like to talk or would practical help be better?' Respect their pace and avoid making the conversation about fixing everything immediately.
Offer a concrete form of help
Ask whether they would like company, help arranging an appointment, or assistance with a daily task. Keep your own limits realistic. Supporting someone does not make you responsible for providing clinical care or being available at every moment.
Act on serious concerns
If someone mentions suicide, ask directly and take it seriously. Encourage prompt contact with a crisis professional. If there is immediate danger, injury, or an overdose, contact emergency services and involve a safe nearby person. Do not promise to keep imminent danger secret. India emergency: 112; mental-health support: 14416.
Sources and further reading
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